WHOA!!!! GET YOUR BUTT BACK INTO THE TEA ROOM AND FEEL THE LOVE, GIRL!!
Seriously , I'm so sorry you feel that way. That is like Empathic bombardment. You need to tune out negative people and use your precious time here to learn and expand your k...
Honey, I don't know what happend, but I do hear this alot. If you'd like to talk feel free to pm me. but if you choose to leave, then you must do what is best to uplift your soul and continue down your spiritual path. May the Angels be with you th...
I haven't attempted to guilt trip you for speaking your mind. Why would I do that?
It is just that I have never seen this many old-timers (including myself) before talking about this guilt about "ignoring" posts. It is a huge issue these days.
A...
Hi Pam. I'm sorry that I haven't had the chance to get to know you. I'm new here. I'm also sorry that you've been hurt, and left out. Please know that you are valued here. I appreciate every response I read on here. You never know when something y...
Malene,
I was simply stating how I felt.
I don't need your guilt trip on me, for speaking my mind either.
my intent was not to make good people feel bad.
selfish and petty was meant for the trouble makers who drive good people away.
I haven't been to chat in ages. Only two times actually, barring a time to private chat. I had a bad experience there too, finding myself snapping at someone. And, I don't want to do that. Here on the boards, I can read and reread what I have to s...
...I also feel sad because you feel you must leave. I send you lot's of love and healing! Know that there are many of us here that will miss you...and will be here if and when you feel you can come back. Take care of yourself!
Sending you love, pe...
All I can say is I am sorry that you've been made to feel this way. I know only too well what it's like to be on the outside. And I hate the thought of someone else struggling, and feeling isolated. You are someone who I remember from early on whe...
Unfortunately that happens sometimes Pam. I have witnessed it only a couple of times. Please do not let it stop you from enjoying the truly wonderful people who do chat there that are helpful and not nasty and ugly. From the times I have seen it h...
Pam,
I know it is hard when we are 'sensitive' and these things happen. Ugliness can sure hit us hard. Yet, there are lots of kind people here as well. People who are not like that. We can't change what others say and do. We also have no control o...
to those who chose to be selfish and petty I feel sorry for you
Not sure what is going on here either... I do know however, that a number of people are fighting their own guilt for not helping enough. I am sure, everybody gives whatever they can ...
Difference of opinion, unfortunately, anywhere can cause anger, negativity & name calling :( Everyone thinks differently & regardless as to how well people conduct themselves sometimes things get out of hand. Not saying that it is acceptable behav...
Well... I don't really know what's going on, but I'm really sorry to hear that :/ I agree with you... seems like with our nature understanding, tolerance, and acceptance would come easier to people. Anyway... I wish you the best.
acceptance, advice, tools I can use to better control my abilities.
Peace of mind.
About You:
I guess I now know what to call it, I am not crazy. I often have dreams that come true. I can read people and in some cases feel there pain to the point of tears. TV and Movies can leave me sobbing. I am the Mother of all my friends and co workers. There are so many sides to me and my abilities that I am just learning. Besides feeling what others feel, I myself have suffered the loss of my brother and Mother. Sometimes someone else s grief can take me right back to that moment in time. I have been managing my life for years by giving myself a breakdown day, on this day I watch those sad movies and cry I don't answer the phone and I just hide out and release it all. These days usually occur when I have just taken on the world, my cup is so full I will burst if I don't let it out. can't show the week side of me to everyone else ( mind you this method was devised to keep me sane before I knew that I was an empath.
Dear Pam,
You have been on my mind all day, since I read your posts this a.m. I would really like you to stay with us...even though you have been hurt. I for one will give you support, so come along with me...have a cup of tea! The best is yet to be. I do understand if you feel you can't, just know that I am praying for you prayers of peace, love and forgiveness.
Thinking of you and sending you love,
Lynn
My dad wasn't on board w. Betsy's celebration of life for the longest time. But when the day came, I had a memory board displayed of nearly 200 pictures, mostly of Betsy between the ages of 20 and 30. As my friend Jackie said, she seemed to cram a lot of living into a short period of time as if she knew she would be leaving us soon.
My dad even had a change of heart too and admitted to others (not me) during the party that this was a good idea. He began to see Betsy as a good person who never hurt anyone but herself. That is a HUGE change in his attitude toward her!
I am so glad to hear of things in your household doing well! I miss you, will sign on from time to time....hope to talk to you soon!
Life has taken a lot of little twists in the last few months, so I've been basically processing. I think of you often and wonder how things are going since you've told your husband of your abilities?!
On the subject of Wakes and funerals, two weeks ago, we held my sister Betsy's wake at my house. It was a very special day and while it brought some tears, it brought lots of love, respect and joy too! Some relatives I haven't seen in years. Some I may be seeing for the last time. All in all, a good day and a happy event. :-)