Hi Tammie,
I have to say that I am very understandable and both of them know it; that is why they come to me to unload whatever is frustrating them. Then, when they're all empty, they don't have time for you. People know that I am empathetic to t...
Thank you both for your responses. Christine, you sound like me. I've tried your method, but somehow still get caught up in the moderation area. Also, it seems that I find one connection point and automatically decide to trust that person and then...
Looking back on my life when things like that happened I would feel hurt and knock my brain out trying to figure out what I did. But over time you realize if you didn't do anything..then what else can you do but ask the person if you did anything ...
My solution is fairly simple: don't get close. Or, if you want to...follow the MMI pattern.
I don't know about everyone else here, but I have very serious trust issues. I monitor people extremely closely before I even talk to them, and part of th...
Hi guys!
I was wondering how you all deal with rejection and being an empath. Personally, I have had my share of the nasty "r" word and even though I'm tons stronger than I used to be, I'm very interested in learning your tactics for dealing. Thi...
yes, if you are a very clean and orgazied person and your surrounding are cluttered and unorganized, you will began to feel that way to. I think this is why they invented Feng Shui, lol.
I highly recommend "A home for the soul" by Tony Lawlor, if for no other reason than to spark your dream of a home of your own.
Tonys blog has some good stuff as well
http://dwellingherenow.blogspot.com/
Thank you Nichole! And thank you everyone else for your kinds words and input. Now, I know I'm not crazy:p and not the only one who this happens to.
To Christine--your situation was the total opposite but just as unnerving--to have someone who is...
Hey Nicole,
I did go berserk. I found a nice calm when I moved out. Wish I could tell you a good coping method other than having your own space but, it was really hard for me to exists amongst all of the frazzled energy. I really feel for you and ...
Yes i believe it can bother you....
It's good that you have your own space. I am in a similiar situation. It does take the pep out of my step. But we just moved in. still have unpacking to do. driving me nutz. the more there is to do the less i do...
Hey guys! Thanks for your input. To answer Airmid....yes, there have been many arguments between my mom and him and me and him and nothing has changed. He goes on the defensive in 60 seconds flat and even though I'll fight to the death, my mom sto...
Yes, I agree with Airmid. I think people's environment and living space is a reflection of what is going on in there heads. Following that line of thinking. If someone has a hard time letting go of the past and perhaps issues they have had all of ...
I can say absolutely I am affected by where I live. If I live near other people, even if they are not in my actual home, it can have a HUGE affect on me. As am empath, I am very affected by who and what is in my living environment. Much less so if...
I'm just looking for some people who understand what I'm going through. Sometimes I feel exasperated by people...as if I'm there to boost them up and then they leave me feeling drained and when I need someone to be there for me, no one's around or someone is there but he/she doesn't understand or cannot relate and I spend more of my energy trying to get them to understand or relate. By the time I figure out that they simply do not understand, I'm frustrated and irritable and it makes me feel like no one understands or that I'm some type of social outcast. I need to be cleansed and get back to my positive self.
About You:
I'm a painter and a writer who loves Marlon Brando movies and blues rock. I love learning about different cultures; I've studied French, Spanish, some Farsi and I love to travel and see and smell new places. Nature is very important to me--you can find me most any time trying to wind down by walking the nature trail by my house or playing with my cat Patches!